This page includes information on what sexual violence is, helpful resources, and support services in the community.

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What is sexual violence?

Sexual Violence is a term that describes sexual activity or behaviour that a person does not or cannot give consent to.

Sexual Violence is also a family violence issue as the person who uses harmful sexual behaviour is often someone known to the victim/survivor, and it is often through the exploitation of power and control. It does not matter if you are married, in a relationship, family, or strangers – Consent must be obtained. Other terms used include sexual harassment, sexual abuse, sexual assault, sexual harm and harmful sexual behaviour.

Some of the behaviours are:

  • Sexual violation: any type of penetrative sex without consent (rape) – vaginal, anal, oral, fingers/hands, object.
  • Any indecent exposure such as flashing or inappropriate display of the body
  • Unwanted sexual touching, hugging, encroaching on someone's personal space, kissing or indecent assault
  • Online harm such as sharing of intimate images or videos including sextorion and deep fakes.
  • Any unwanted sexually suggestive comments or jokes, gestures, insults or taunts of a sexual nature, or other forms of inappropriate language
  • Any unwanted advances, repeated invitations to go out on dates, particularly if those invitations have previously been declined
  • Inappropriate staring or leering
  • Using threats, force, intimidation or coercion to induce consent
  • Being forced to carry out a sexual act or requests for sexual favours
  • Intrusive questions or comments about a person's private life, clothing or physical appearance
  • Any unwanted receipt of sexually explicit pictures, posters, gifts, emails or text messages
  • Direct or indirect requests for sexual activity that contain an implied or express promise of preferential treatment or threat of detrimental treatment, exploiting a power differential
  • Being forced to watch pornography

The behaviour may or may not be entwined with homophobia, biphobia, gender policing, transphobia, ableism, sexism and/or racism.

What is consent?

Consent means the active, ongoing, informed, specific and freely given agreement in response to a request to engage in physical contact, sharing media or sexual activity. Consent cannot be given by someone who is coerced, incapacitated by drugs or alcohol or is so affected by drugs or alcohol that they cannot consent or refuse to consent to the activity. Consent cannot be given by someone who is unconscious or who has a diminished level of consciousness, or otherwise unable to understand and voluntarily give consent. Consent must be actively sought and actively communicated.

Interactive tool: Sexual Consent: Do you get it?

Resources and supporting others

Safety planning

Supporting others

The key actions to a safe response to a disclosure are: Believe them, Listen, Offer Options (for support and reporting - see 'support services' below), Get support for yourself.

Informative resources